Robert Grassmier
Obituary

Robert Lynn Grassmier passed away at home in California on September 18, 2026, at the age of 70.

Robert was preceded in death by his parents, Robert Lynn Grassmier and Joyce Ann Grassmier, and his brother, Thomas Grassmier. He is survived by his brothers, Calvin and Mark Grassmier; his daughter, Sharon Bull; and his grandson, Nicholas Romo.

Robert spent his working life behind the wheel of a truck, starting at a very young age. He loved driving and took tremendous pride in his work, believing in getting the job done well, quickly, and efficiently. He eventually joined the State of California, first working in General Services before moving into the prison system, where he transported laundry, milk, and juices. He dedicated more than 25 years of service to the state and earned the respect and appreciation of his coworkers through his strong work ethic, sense of humor, and kind heart.

Robert was funny, amazingly stubborn, generous, and happiest keeping to himself. Affectionately known as both a “Hermit” and “Eeyore,” he had his own way of doing things and a slow, deliberate way of talking that made the nickname Eeyore especially fitting. When his grandson presented him with a stuffed Eeyore, Robert got a good chuckle out of it.

Robert was also a Christian man who loved God and strived to live according to his faith. He did his best to follow God's teachings and put those beliefs into practice in his own life. His faith was an important part of who he was and how he tried to live.

Throughout his life, relationships and love took different forms. His daughter will always hold a special place in her heart for the love her father shared with her mother and the lasting connection he maintained with Darlene. Even after Darlene moved to Sacramento, she and Robert continued to talk often, maintaining a meaningful connection through the years.

One of Robert's greatest joys was Knott's Berry Farm, which held a special place in his heart above all other Southern California theme parks. For him, it was about more than rides. He loved the cowboy atmosphere and history of the park, along with the traditions and memories made there. He took his daughter nearly every year for her birthday while she was growing up, racing her and her mother in the soap box cars and enjoying the bumper cars. That tradition continued as much as possible with his grandson, including rides on the trucks in Camp Snoopy.

Robert also delighted in convincing his daughter that “Old Joe” in the jail knew exactly who she was and that they were there celebrating her birthday. Years later, he showed her how and where to go so she could carry on the same little joke and surprise her own son. These memories became a special family tradition, passed from one generation to the next.

Robert wasn't one for big displays of affection, but he showed his love in his own way. If someone needed him, he was there, ready to help however he could. He was reliable, dependable, and someone his family could count on, even when things weren't easy. His love was often found less in words than in the simple, steady act of showing up.

His daughter is especially grateful to know how deeply he loved her and how proud he was of her. Through the years, even in moments of anger or disagreement, he continued to be there for her, his grandson, and his brother Mark.

Robert will be remembered for his stubborn streak, his humor, his generous heart, his faith, his pride in a job well done, and the quiet, steadfast way he cared for the people who mattered to him. The memories he helped create, especially the traditions passed from one generation to the next, will continue to bring smiles and laughter to those who loved him.

In keeping with Robert's wishes, no funeral service or memorial will be held.